All the nitty gritty about me, I saw this on a friends Facebook and loved it.

***********FOODOLOGY***************
1. What is your salad dressing of choice? Ranch or Italian
2. What is your favorite sit-down restaurant? personally I like the spaghetti factory, or the new sushi place that we have found.
3. What food could you eat every day for two weeks and not get sick of? lasagna (although, I think I would be sick when I looked at the scale)
4. What are your pizza toppings of choice? pepperoni, olives, and mushrooms.
5. What do you like to put on your toast? Jam and honey, I especially like the homemade jams
***********TECHNOLOGY***************
1. How many televisions are in your house? 2, a big thanks to Aunt Jane and Uncle Lucky for letting us have their Big Screen.
2. What color cell phone do you have? red
3. How long would it take you to look up who invented the Rubber Band? a few minutes, however long it takes to google it
4. Have any idea how many Megahertz your computer has? no idea
***************BIOLOGY******************
1. Are you right-handed or left-handed?Right
2. Have you ever had anything removed from your body? 2 babies, if that counts
3. What is the last heavy item you lifted?Amanda
4. Have you ever been knocked unconscious? No and I hope I never will be, it sounds uncomfortable.
************BULLCRAPOLOGY**************
1. If it were possible, would you want to know the day you were going to die? not really, I think I would look to that day too much, and not live enough in the days that I have left.
2. If you could change your name, what would you change it to? I think that I would stick with my name that I have, no point in changing it after using it for this long.
3. Would you drink an entire bottle of hot sauce for $1000? no way, my dad had a co-worker do that (for less $$$) and he didn't come back to work for a week.
************DUMBOLOGY******************
1. How many pairs of flip flops do you own? four
2. Last time you had a run-in with the cops? besides Richard being pulled over a couple of times for speeding, never.
3. Last person you talked to? The kids, asking them to be careful and stop throwing things
**************FAVORITOLOGY****************
1. Season? Winter
2. Holiday? Christmas
3. Day of the week? Sunday
4. Month? December
***********CURRENTOLOGY*****************
1. Missing someone? Family and friends, most in Utah
2. Mood?Tired
3. What are you listening to? Amanda throwing things and laughing because Gabe goes to pick it up to play with.
4. Watching? Children playing, Amanda just got her Tigger toy bouncing and Gabe is trying to imitate it. too cute.
***************RANDOMOLOGY*****************
1. First place you went this morning? Haven't left the house yet.
2. What's the last movie you saw?In a theater, Harry Potter and the half blood prince, in general, The best two years
3. Do you smile often?I try to
4. Sleeping Alone Tonight? nope not since Richard got put on days :)
***************OTHER-OLOGY*****************
1. Do you always answer your phone? I try to, occasionally I forget it at home, or I am busy in another room and don't hear it ringing.
2. It's four in the morning and you get a text message, who is it? I don't know, but there better be a very good reason for it that early.
3. If you could change your eye color what would it be?i like my eye color
4. What flavor do you add to your drink at Sonic? I don't add flavors, I do like the cranberry limeade and the watermelon slush though.
5. Do you own a digital camera?of course
6. Have you ever had a pet fish? Nope
7. Favorite Christmas song(s): "Do you Hear what I Hear" and "Mary did you know?"
8. What's on your wish list for your birthday? Same thing as every year, I would love a kitchen aid mixer, unfortunately they cost too much.
10. Can you do a chin up? haven't tried in a long time, my guess is NO!
11. Does the future make you more nervous or excited? a bit of both
12. Do you have any saved texts?nope
13. Ever been in a car wreck? a fender bender, that ended up really damaging my dads truck, didn't realise it until the next morning when all the fluids had leaked out of the truck.
14. Do you have an accent? Richard tells me that I have a Utahhhhh accccentttt. I don't see it though.
15. What is the last song to make you cry? The song that was sung for the closing hymn on Sunday, about ancestors. it was beautiful!
16. Plans tonight? Hopefully get the garage cleaned out a bit so it will be ready for when Jen comes out here to visit this week.
17. Have you ever felt like you hit rock bottom? nope, and I hope I never have to.
18. Name 3 things you bought in the last 3 days. I haven't gone shopping, so nothing.
19. Have you ever been given roses? Richard used to give them to me, He doesn't do it nearly often enough now for my liking.
20. Current worries? Getting the house cleaned up before Jen gets here.
21. Current hate right now? I cant think of one
22. Met someone who changed your life? absolutely, and I thank each and every one of them for it.
23. How will you bring in the New Year? I don't know, I guess it really all depends on if Richard has to work the next day or not. Usually we buy some sparking cider, and play board games, eat popcorn, and other snacks. that kinda thing.
24. What song represents you? cant really think of one, hummmm... I like I am a Child of God.
25. Would you go back in time if you were given the chance? depends on when, I love history, so It would be fun to visit some time periods.
26. Have you ever dated someone longer than a year? Technically Richard was my first boy friend and we were married 5 months after we met, we have been married for almost 4 years now though.
27. Do you have any tattoos/piercings? just ear piercings
28. Will you be in a relationship 4 months from now? I sure hope so
29. Does anyone love you? absolutely
30. Ever had someone sing to you? Richard sings silly songs to me, and Amanda loves to sing I am a Child of God to me.
31. When did you last cry? Sunday during the afore mentioned song.
32. Do you like to cuddle? Yeah with Richard
33. Have you held hands with anyone today? with both Amanda and Gabe
34. What kind of music did you listen to in elementary school? Country, and things like Hanson, Spice Girls, Back Street Boys, and all those other boy bands from the time.
35. Are most of the friends in your life new or old?have some of each, mainly new though.

Gabe's Birthday

Gabe turned 1 yesterday. It seems like it was just yesterday that we brought this little bundle of joy in to the world.

This little cutie has gone from staring at you and smiling, to rolling over, to crawling, and now to walking. He is getting so big, and cuter by the day.

Opening presents. The toy cars that Mommy and Daddy gave him was a favorite present.The most favorite present was the football from Grandma and Grandpa Hurst.
Here is the cake. I have to say I am pretty proud of how it turned out (I made it).

And as always every parent has to take a picture of their kid after they eat their Birthday cake and Ice cream. He loved it as you can tell.

All in all it was a great day, now we just have to wait for September to celebrate Amanda's 3rd birthday. Boy does time fly.

long time...

Well its been a while since I blogged last so I will catch everyone up on things that have been going on here in the Wilcox House....

Richard is in scouts now. He is the Weblos leader (I think I spelt it wrong). Here are some pics of some of the boys, it was taken a while ago so some of them are no longer in his group, they are in the 11 year old group now.

Richard loves this calling, and it was great for while he was still working on Sundays.

Amanda and Gabe are loving playing with each other. They have so much fun playing everything with each other, just as long as they don't have to share the toys that is.

We have also been having fun going to the water park for the Mommy's group in our ward.

I couldn't get Amanda to play in the water for a quite a while the first day, but after she went in, there almost wasn't any getting her out.

We had a fun time when Grandma Hurst, Aunt Janet, and Aunt Miki came out here for a week. They came out here for a wedding, which is why we are all dressed up in the pic. Amanda was so happy to see her "Bampa Hust" and "Aunt Miki" and "Aunt Jant" again, and was so sad when they left, she kept asking for them for like a week after they left.Well that is pretty much all that we have been up to besides the normal everyday things. We are looking forward to a visit from a good friend later this month and I will be sure to post about that too. Stay tuned.

woo hoooooo!!!

So Can I brag???

I just mistakenly put on a pair of pants that a friend gave me about a month ago that didn't fit, I couldn't even get the zipper to begin zipping up (I figured that with exercising the way I have been doing I would fit eventually, in a couple of months or so).

I pulled them down off the hanger thinking they were one of my regular pairs of jeans and did them up, I couldn't figure out why they were fitting so tight. I looked closer and realized that they were "the pants".

I cant believe that they fit albeit tightly, but I was able to zip them up and button them!!! This is a major accomplishment!!! All the exercise is worth it when I see things like this.

its been a while....

So its been a while since I last blogged. So here are some updates on what has been going on in the Wilcox House..

Richard now has Sundays off from work!!! I no longer have to do the single mom thing YAY, provided Richard is not busy doing something like he is this week. He had to go to a meeting in LA that just happened to be on a Sunday, stake conference Sunday none the less- as you can see I'm not all that happy with it, but what can you do?

Amanda is saying prayers on her own now, short ones and I don't understand most of what she is saying, but she is saying prayers. She is getting so big.

Gabe is growing and learning like crazy. I am totally thinking that he could be walking in the next couple of weeks. Its hard to believe that he is almost a year old now.

I have been exercising at nap time for almost 3 weeks now, I do a different workout video everyday, and make sure that it is at least 45 minutes or longer. I am seeing a major change in my waist line, and I have muscles growing all over thanks to the variation in videos. I haven't lost any weight, but the inches are a major accomplishment. I haven't measured yet but judging by my pants I am guessing that I have lost at least 2 to 3 inches. I have lost in my legs as well, which is a very hard place for me to loose. I am so excited about the results. I guess the major problem that I am facing is that I have a hard time staying motivated. I pray that I can keep it up. I want to get back to my pre pregnancy body from Amanda. That means that I have like 6 pant sizes to go. its only been 3 weeks and I am seeing big results though so I hope that I can keep it up.

our poor garden died. The heat of the summer got to it, I need to find another way to grow a garden out here that wont kill it.

That is about all that has been going on here for now, we are looking forward to family coming in a couple of weeks, and friends in a little over a month though, so look forward to pics and more blogging.

great blessings....

Well I am officially boot free now (round of applause). I went to the Dr. yesterday, he said that everything looks great, no need for boot, and because it isn't hurting, no need for physical therapy either. I am so happy to be able to wear flip flops again. I hate, no a better word is despise shoes. The last 9 weeks of having to wear something non stop pretty much on my right foot, and a tennis shoe on my other one has been driving me NUTS!!!! Yay for flip flops, especially with it hitting the upper 80's and into the 90's some days out here.

While getting my X-Ray I had a humbling experience. I have had a few pity parties for the bad timing of and hurting my ankle, but I had it good. when I walked into the X-ray place there was a guy that started talking to me, he had a boot on one leg, wrist wraps on both wrists, and scars on both legs and arms. I at some point told him that I had broke my ankle, he told me he had broken his too, along with almost every bone in his body. I asked him what had happened to injure him so much. He told me that he had fallen out of a window 4 stories up. He had to have reconstructive surgery on his face, his legs, and arms, plates and screws galore. I am so grateful that I had a simple injury that didn't almost kill me. There are many people out there with much worse problems than I had.

Gabe had an ear infection, but is now getting over it. I am so grateful for modern science that gives us medication that helps us feel better quickly.

And now for the best news of all.... drum roll please.....

Richard got the news today that starting May 17 he will now have SUNDAY off. I am so happy that we are going to be able to have him at church with us again. He has only been to church with us a handful of times since his work schedule changed Feb. of last year. I am so excited to have him with us once again, Richard cant wait either.

I am so grateful for all those blessings that Heavenly Father has seen fit for our family at the moment.

my love, my heart...

I am hopefully getting permission to go without the boot tomorrow from the Doctor. It has been almost 9 weeks since I hurt myself, and we have had many things going on in that time, a move, many illnesses, and the fact that I couldn't move well.

As I reflect back on the last 9 weeks or so I cant remember a time when my wonderful husband hasn't been there to help me with taking care of the kids, making dinner, cleaning house, and the countless other things that he has done. I am so grateful for all the help he has given me. I have found myself falling for Richard in a whole new way, and more than I ever thought possible. I honestly do not know what I would do if I didn't have him in my life. I hate to think what my
life would be like had I not met him or made some other choices in my life.

I have to explain... When I was growing up I was always friends with guys but never had a real "boy friend". In college being in the Singles Ward, and not getting any interest from the guys, I started to think that I would become an old maid (I know now that it was silly to think that when I was so young). I wanted to have a boy friend so badly that when a classmate started to pay attention to me and asked me to date him, I almost did. I knew that it wouldn't work out, he belonged to a different religion that would have created contention between the two of us. Luckily the Spirit touched me, and Heavenly Father was directing me elsewhere. I found a quote that I had been given in Young Women's that said that you marry who you date, and I wanted a temple marriage. So I told this guy that I couldn't date him, needless to say he was very upset with me. I prayed about it later that night, asking what should I do, and finally told Heavenly Father I was leaving my love life up to him. After the prayer I felt the spirit telling me, "Heather, be patient, you will meet him soon, just be patient". Two weeks later Richard and I met, that is a whole story in and of its own.

I just think, what if I had been dating that guy? Would I have met Richard? Would I have even payed any attention to him if I did? I am so thankful for a loving Heavenly Father who led me to someone so kind and loving, and that could give me the temple marriage that I wanted, not to mention a worthy priesthood holder.

I am so thankful for a husband that gives so much of himself for our family, those who we call family and friends, and to those whom he sees are in need of help.

Richard, I love you for always!